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After wedding you have the housework

The Unspoken Truth: After Wedding, You Have the Housework

As I stood at the altar, promising to love and cherish my partner for the rest of our lives, little did I know that I was also signing up for a lifetime of housework. The wedding day excitement had worn off, and reality hit hard. Suddenly, every mess, every stain, and every dust speck became my responsibility. It's not just about being a good wife or partner; it's about taking on the invisible load of domestic chores that comes with marriage.

The Unseen Labor

Marriage is often celebrated as a union of two people in love, but rarely do we talk about the behind-the-scenes work that goes into making a home run smoothly. Who makes sure the laundry gets done? Who cleans up after meals? Who takes care of the household finances? These are not trivial tasks; they require time, effort, and energy.

The Unbalanced Load

Research shows that women still bear the brunt of household responsibilities, even in modern relationships. A survey found that 71% of couples believe that household chores should be shared equally, but only 44% report actually doing so. This means that many men feel they are contributing fairly, while their partners feel overwhelmed and undervalued.

The Impact on Career

As a professional woman, I've seen firsthand how the uneven distribution of housework can impact my career. When household responsibilities take over, it's harder to focus on work, meet deadlines, or even show up to meetings prepared. It's not just about being late; it's about feeling constantly drained and burnt out.

The Solution: Communication and Compromise

So, what's the solution? Communication is key. Couples need to talk openly about their expectations, needs, and boundaries when it comes to household responsibilities. This means sharing a chore list, dividing tasks fairly, and holding each other accountable.

  • Here are some ways couples can communicate effectively:
  • Schedule regular household meetings to discuss responsibilities and concerns
  • Create a shared calendar or app to track chores and deadlines
  • Practice active listening and avoid blaming or criticizing each other

Conclusion

Marriage is about partnership, support, and mutual respect. When it comes to housework, this means recognizing the invisible labor that goes into making a home run smoothly and working together to divide tasks fairly. By communicating openly and compromising on household responsibilities, couples can create a more balanced and sustainable partnership that benefits both careers and personal lives. Remember, after wedding, you have the housework – but with communication and compromise, you can take ownership of it together.


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  • Created by: Noah Weber
  • Created at: Sept. 10, 2022, 4:03 p.m.
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