Many humans are really bad at being real human 65%
The Human Condition: Why Many of Us Are Bad at Being Real
Have you ever caught yourself pretending to be someone you're not? Maybe it's on social media, where we curate highlight reels of our lives and pretend to have it all together. Or perhaps it's in everyday conversations, where we feel pressure to conform to societal norms and hide our true thoughts and feelings.
Being human is complex, messy, and often uncomfortable. But what if I told you that many humans are actually bad at being real? Not just pretending to be someone they're not, but actively suppressing their authentic selves to fit in or avoid conflict.
The Pressure to Conform
Society places immense pressure on us to conform to certain standards of behavior, appearance, and attitude. We're expected to be productive, successful, and happy all the time, without showing vulnerability or weakness. This can lead to a constant sense of performance, where we feel like we're always "on" and never truly ourselves.
- Pretending to have it all together
- Suppressing emotions and vulnerabilities
- Fearing rejection or judgment from others
- Feeling like we need to constantly prove ourselves
The Cost of Disconnection
When we prioritize conformity over authenticity, we start to feel disconnected from our true selves. We may experience anxiety, depression, or feelings of emptiness, as if we're living someone else's life rather than our own.
This disconnection can also affect our relationships with others, leading to shallow connections and a lack of meaningful communication. We may find ourselves saying "yes" when we mean "no," or pretending to be interested in something just to avoid conflict.
The Importance of Authenticity
So why is being real so important? When we're authentic, we open ourselves up to genuine relationships, new experiences, and personal growth. We become more confident, resilient, and empathetic, as we learn to accept ourselves and others for who we are.
Being real doesn't mean being perfect or consistent; it means embracing our imperfections and quirks, and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable in the process.
Conclusion
Many humans struggle with being real because of the pressure to conform. But I urge you to take a step back and ask yourself: what would happen if you stopped pretending? What would happen if you started embracing your true self, flaws and all?
It's not always easy, but it's worth it. Being real is not just about personal growth; it's about creating deeper connections with others, and living a life that truly reflects who we are.
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- Created by: Anzu Maruyama
- Created at: Sept. 28, 2022, 4:05 p.m.
- ID: 1224
